Attitudes and Beliefs

WHY

Lauren Alys Kelly

1/5/20253 min read

UNDERSTAND

Attitudes & Beliefs

We don’t see the world as it is. We see it as we believe it to be.

Ever hit someone with cold, hard facts... only for them to dig in harder?
You lay out the evidence. They nod. Maybe they even agree.
Then… nothing changes.
That’s Attitudes & Beliefs in action.

Once we believe something, we don’t just hold onto it, we defend it. We filter out facts that don’t fit. We twist evidence to match what we already think. We don’t see the world as it is, we see it as we believe it to be.

IN BRIEF

  • Attitudes & Beliefs shape what we see, how we decide, and what we do.

  • They act as filters that help us navigate the world but can also limit change.

  • To shift them: Make the change easy, show real-world consequences, use social proof, and encourage small steps first.

WHAT IT IS

Attitudes and beliefs act like internal filters. They shape how we interpret the world, influencing our choices and actions, often without conscious thought.

They help us make quick decisions, but they also create blind spots. We defend them, even when presented with new evidence. Instead of updating what we believe, we often reinterpret the facts to match our existing views.

E.g. Someone believes all fast food is unhealthy.
They avoid it, even when options like salads exist.

HOW IT INFLUENCES US

Attitudes & Beliefs shape how we see, decide, and act:

1. They shape perception

We notice things that match what we already believe. If we think a politician is corrupt, we focus on scandals and ignore positive reports.

2. They guide actions

A positive attitude toward exercise makes us more likely to work out. A belief that “I’m bad at maths” leads to avoidance, even if skills could improve.

3. They drive decisions

If someone believes climate change is a hoax, they won’t support green policies, no matter how strong the evidence.

4. They affect social interactions

If we assume a group is untrustworthy, we avoid them. Even without personal experience.

HOW TO SPOT IT

Want to know if attitudes and beliefs are shaping decisions?
Look for these signs:

🔎 People repeat justifications“We’ve always done it this way.” “That’s just how things are.” These signal deeply held beliefs, not logical reasoning.

🔎 Resistance to change without clear reasons When new ideas get rejected immediately, it’s often about belief, not facts.

🔎 Cherry-picking informationIf someone only accepts facts that confirm their belief and ignores everything else, belief is in control.

🔎 Lack of diversity in ideas → When all solutions sound the same, a dominant belief is limiting creativity.

HOW TO SHIFT IT

Attitudes and beliefs are hard to change, but not impossible. Instead of direct confrontation (which triggers defensiveness), try these tactics:

1. Make the future real

Use Show Consequences to highlight long-term effects. People respond better when they clearly see the impact of their actions.

2. Reframe choices

Use Choice Architect to present decisions differently. A new belief often starts with a small shift in how choices are framed.

3. Encourage small steps first

Use Commitment Devices or Schedule Action to create momentum. Small wins shift beliefs over time.

4. Leverage social influence

Use Together We All Win or Group Effort to surround people with others who reinforce the new belief. People adjust their attitudes to fit in.

Change Tactics coming soon

Want to read tactics like Show Consequences and Reconfigure Options? 🔜

The Science Behind It

Our brains work hard to protect our existing beliefs. Even when faced with conflicting evidence, we often double down rather than change our minds.

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